My Condolences and I hope this helps

I'm sorry about what has happened but maybe this might help someone or help in some way. 

In times of trouble I've always been taught to turn to Christ and the scriptures. This scripture is from the bible. 

John 14:27 "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."